Today is your day!
Today is the day you will stop doubting yourself.
Today is the day you will stop blaming everyone & everything else for how your life looks.
Today is the day you wake up to your life.
Stop right where you are. I know exactly what you’re doing. Those uncomfortable feelings just came up inside of you trying to give you reasons why you can’t move forward in your life. “This is too hard” or “Shari, it’s easier said than done.” Don’t push those feelings aside though. Pay close attention to them, for they are the ones that are stopping you along your journey to self awareness, self love, and simply happiness! They are the ones that are telling you you’re not worth it. Or it won’t work out. Or you’ll be disappointed. Or you’re not good enough. Enough. Today is the day you take back your life!
Until you come to terms with what part you play in what your life looks like, you will never be able to change it. Yes, you might’ve had some crappy things happen to you in your past, but at some point you have to come to terms with it and choose to heal it and learn from it. If you keep using your past and the “story” you keep telling yourself over and over again as to why you can’t be happy, you will then forever then not be happy. That simple.
And yes, I know it is difficult to just “let it go” when you’ve been hurt again and again. Part of the reason why you’re being hurt throughout your life is because you never dealt with the original pain. When you face what has happened to you with an openness and an eagerness to learn from it, then you will be able to start to heal and you will stop attracting similar situations and people into your life that bring up that pain again. Your life is one big classroom. The people you meet are your teachers and the situations and circumstances are your lessons. These people and circumstances keep showing up in your life because it is your soul beckoning to you to face your past and learn the lessons needed so you can move on to the next assignment. You will never be able to move forward if you are constantly blaming everyone and everything else.
So let’s step up!
Let’s look at our lives and take responsibility for it. No more excuses!
Let’s choose to forgive those who hurt us and let’s choose to forgive ourselves for allowing hurtful people into our lives.
It’s time to walk in the beauty, truth, love, and magnificence of who you really are!
It’s time to take back your life and claim what is yours!
It’s time to start truly LIVING!
Today is YOUR day!
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